1. Use BB cream. Put it all over your face.
2. Put on loose powder so that it won't be so shiny.
3. Put on eyeshadow colours that are natural. Just put it on the lining of your eyelid.
4. Curl your lashes and instead of putting mascara, use vaseline. (The curling lashes step is optional.)
5. Last and not the least, lip balm. Use one that has a tint in it so that it'll give your lips colour.
(Magic Tint Balm by Etude)
That's pretty much all. Thanks for reading!
According to Wikipedia, confidence is generally described as a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective. But based on my experiences, the word "confident" is used to describe a person, by how well they can handle a situation well without worrying that they'll fail.
There are some people who lack confidence, there are some who have a lot of confidence. Most of the people I know have both. I can say that I am in the same situation as they are. They have a lot confidence when they're alone or with their friends. (joking around, laughing and etc.) They lose all their confidence when they are asked to do things like public speaking, which is something I can relate to. I'm the kind of person who can't speak well in front of an audience. I usually get nervous and go completely blank.
I'm going to tell you how much I lack confidence by telling you a story that is based on my own experience in the past.
I was on this leadership training in October 2015. We were supposed to do plenty of public speaking... which is something that I totally suck at, because the public speaking was solely based on spirituality, which is something I have trouble with expressing. Every time there was this session where we have to speak in front, I always did my best to hide. I usually got away with it, but because my friends there did not know about it, someone mentioned my name, asking me to go up front. And that time, I was not finished answering the questions (I have to present my answers) because I was very sleepy... I actually fell asleep during my friend's presentation and he did not seem to have seen it that I was really not ready with it. I went to the front, my voice was so small, my feet were shaking and slowly my whole body was shaking as well, because my friend's faces were so scary (I'm sorry!). I read my answers really quickly and went back to my seat.
It was very embarrassing, very embarrassing indeed. I was able to feel myself fading from my seat as soon as I got back, but then, being the chillest person that I am, I fell asleep. I know, I never learn.
Anyone who's good at public speaking, please help me. I need to gain confidence in speaking, because I know that it is the ultimate weapon to make people amazed.(well not amazed I guess, but convinced) The only way I can actually express my opinions is through writing and through drawing, which is a way that rarely reaches the open world unless you're famous. I beg you, please help me. Tell me how I can gain confidence or else I'll appear in a corner of your room at night. (Just kidding, but please help.)
Sorry.... everything got out of hand. Don't judge me for my lack of confidence. I envy my friends who can speak so well in front of an audience... T-T
I don't know how to end this. So... Goodbye?. :(
